To get into terms on the subject above lets identified the meaning of friend, according to my defination it will be a person that will assist you to goodness in life, that will advice you from harm and a person in all act will assist you in full sincerity. According to wikipedia if you type friends it will be the famous american sitcom and if you type friend it will be
.tendency to desire what is best of other
.honesty
.mutual understanding and compassion
.trust in one another
if we follow above is there any friendship around? I beleive is getting less.
In the world around us somehow majority of it have lost the sense and actuall meaning of it as we seems to be normal to have friend with benefit where the terms you scrath my back i will scratch you back, where does the act of sincerity in having good intention towards other then? And is normal in marketing where a salesmen will say so and so is my friend and so forth my guess will be our general population have forget the meaning of friend and many other definition that would not be discuss in this subject.
In language our education system really need to start a definition class as we on general have use many words that does not actually decribe what our feelings is and indonesian language to me is slightly better in delivering the message accurately compare to us malaysian. What im trying to say when our language does not deliver feelings of the language properly then maybe is about time someone to have a look at it as language main objective is to deliver message and feeling correctly. Lots of human being nowdays main reason they are socializing, mix around is for their personal benefits and is for their personnel benefit to have friend. Why cant we just treat every person with the same respect and feeling we gave towards other, why there must be standard? Any idea on how we can change this mindset? We need to start to open our mind and realise that the best and purest form of act will be sincerity without expectation as the one that will judge us is god and non other. Life is always about striving for the greater and i personnaly hope that my consious and subconcius will develop me into the friend category and not the other 2 above.
We need to be a great friend first before we can be associate with great friends as they are old saying great man think alike, why are the saying use man as example dont ask me :)
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